Negative Nelly's

 I get so irritated when I hear people putting down other peoples dreams. The world is full of people who are afraid of change and can come up with reason after reason why things can't be done. You have two choices on how to deal with them.

Option 1: Listen to them and let them bring you down and give up before you even start.

Option 2: Listen to them and let them tell you why it won't work while you figure out for each obstacle how to make it work.

Can you guess which one I vote for? Often the neigh sayors have lots of great objections. They are often able to bring up obsticals we have not thought of yet. Some of the objections are hog wash, but some are true obsticals. The more they point them out, the less work we have to do. You know why? Because the fact is whether it is a business you want to go into, a peronal goal you want to reach like losing weight or running a marathon these obsticals may eventually present themselves. By these Negative Nelly's doing all the negative thinking for us, we get to focus on the positive. We get to think about the solutions. Knowing what the obstical is makes it easier to jump over and keep moving. These Negative Nelly's may think they are keeping us down, like they do themselves, but they are not. They are just making us better prepared and more likely to succeed.

So go for it listen to the Negative Nelly's!!